anguishing

also it might be helpful for you to survive from suffering tragedy and anguishing catastrophe.

感恩的心还可以帮助我们度过最大的痛苦和灾难。

The scene of the child's burial is anguishing without being forced.

埋葬孩子的场景痛苦至极却没有刻意煽情。

The throes of a man who craved power but, as vice-president, had none, are anguishing to read.

他渴望权力，但作为副总统却了无实权，这种痛苦读来让人心折。

Dealing with the latter can be anguishing and taxing.

与后者打交道会让人心力交瘁，痛苦不堪。