avoider

They, in turn, might perceive you as a conflict-avoider, someone too fearful to confront problems head-on.

如此一来，他们会认为你是一个想要避免冲突、不敢直接面对问题的人。

If you're an avoider, you need to practise relying on people, giving them a chance instead of finding fault and pulling away.

如果你是一个回避型的人，你需要练习信赖别人，给别人一个机会，而不是吹毛求疵，把别人推得远远的。