narcissists

Okay, yes. They were all narcissists with commitment phobias. . . . . . and substance abuse issues.

好吧，他们都是有承诺恐惧症的自恋鬼，而且滥用物质。

One of the best showcases for narcissists at the moment is reality TV.

目前最适合自恋者表现的场合之一是电视真人秀。

To deal with narcissists , it helps to understand that they generally detest themselves at some level.

要应对自恋者，一个有帮助的方法是了解他们一般会在某个程度上十分憎恶自己。

Pleasers end up being mildly pitied by most people, but narcissists cut right in and exploit the hell out of them.

取悦者最终被多数人稍加怜悯，可是自恋者会半路出现，大大地利用他们。

Those who spent more time updating their profile on the social networking site were more likely to be narcissists, said researchers .

研究人员称，花费较多时间更新社交网站个人资料的人更有可能是自恋狂。

The first way of dealing with narcissists is to behave as they want you to.

对付自恋者的第一个个方法就是按照他们希望你的方式去做。

Narcissists are also known to be controllers, manipulators, aggressive, unfaithful, and given to playing mind-games.

自恋者也常常是控制者，机器，具有攻击性，不忠和玩心理游戏。

Participants liked narcissists' sense of entitlement most.

参与者更喜欢自恋者的自我加冕风格。

One observation was that narcissists tend to post many pictures of themselves with others and at parties.

有观察自恋者倾向于把自己和别人的合照以及各参加种宴会的照片贴出来。

But productive narcissists have perspective, and are able to laugh at themselves.

但高效的自恋者拥有深刻的洞察力，容易嘲笑别人。

Narcissists, much to the surprise of many experts, are in the process of becoming an endangered species.

出乎大多数专家的意料，自恋者正处于变成濒危物种的过程中。

So narcissists create illusions and project their illusions on other people and this is part of what makes them unable to receive.

自恋欲者创造了幻想，并且在他人身上投射这些幻想，这是使他们不能获得的部分原因。

In their two-part study, narcissists scored much higher in a simulated job interview than equally qualified non-narcissists.

在他们的这项由两部分组成的研究当中，自恋者在模拟求职面试中的得分比资质相当的不自恋者高得多。

Psychologists categorize them as borderline personalities, narcissists, etc. , etc.

心理学家们称之为边界个性、自恋者等等。

Narcissists who lack self-knowledge are unrealistic dreamers : emotionally isolated and highly distrustful .

缺乏自知之明的自恋者是不切实际的空想家：感情孤僻，严重不信任他人。

If you take the dominant role, narcissists will fall into the "dominated" category without even understanding why.

如果你进入了主宰的角色，自恋者们就会进入”被主宰“类别，甚至连原因也不知道。

People whose parents are narcissists are more susceptible, as are people with certain early experiences.

如果父母是自恋狂，那么这个人更容易受影响，就像某些有自恋早期经验的人那样。

Narcissists are clearly part of the poor-control camp.

自恋狂的控制力明显较差。

There can be narcissists on both sides of a cause or argument.

针对同一个事业或事情的两个方面，也都可能产生自恋。

So the practical upshot of this study is: don't encourage the narcissists by paying them any attention.

因此，该项研究的特殊结果是：不要给予自恋者关注来鼓励他们。